Easy ways to encourage self-feeding with the right tools
One of the simplest ways to support self-feeding is by giving babies cutlery and tableware specifically designed for little hands and developing skills.
Learning to feed themselves is a big and exciting step for babies and toddlers. While it can be messy and sometimes slow, self-feeding plays an important role in building confidence, coordination and a healthy relationship with food. The right equipment can turn frustration into enjoyment and help children feel proud of what they can do on their own.
Starting with appropriately sized cutlery makes a noticeable difference. Utensils with chunky, easy-grip handles are far easier for babies to hold, giving them greater control as they practise scooping and lifting food. When cutlery feels comfortable and balanced, children are more likely to persevere, strengthening fine motor skills and improving hand-eye coordination with every meal. Plates and bowls also play a key role in encouraging independence. Suction bases help keep dishes firmly in place, reducing spills and allowing children to focus on eating rather than chasing food around the table. Plates with raised edges or divided sections make it easier to scoop and offer a clear, appealing view of different foods, which can be especially helpful for children who are cautious about new flavours.
Drinking independently is another part of self-feeding and an important milestone. Sippy cups designed with soft spouts or straws, along with easy-grip handles, allow little ones to practise without overwhelming them. Leak-resistant designs offer reassurance for parents while giving children the freedom to drink confidently on their own, whether at home or on the go.
Bib choice shouldn’t be overlooked either. Flexible silicone bibs with deep pockets catch dropped food and help keep clothes clean, which means parents can relax and allow children the freedom to experiment. When mess is manageable, self-feeding becomes a positive experience rather than a stressful one.
Above all, consistency and encouragement are key. Offering the same familiar tools at each mealtime helps children build confidence and recognise what’s expected of them. With thoughtfully designed tableware that supports developing skills, self-feeding becomes less about perfection and more about progress. By choosing the right tools, parents can create a supportive environment where children feel empowered to explore food, learn through experience and enjoy every step of their mealtime journey.
Pickle & Bear offer a range of thoughtfully conceived tableware, cutlery and bibs for babies and toddlers, all designed to be fun and to encourage self-feeding. Have a browse and don’t hesitate to get in touch if you need any help.
Need advice? Call us on 0800 124 4906 or email us at sales@pickleandbear.uk
