Top tips for introducing open cups and cutlery to toddlers

Helping your toddler move on to open cups and proper cutlery is an exciting milestone. It can feel a little daunting, but with the right tools it needn’t be.

Thoughtfully designed tableware, like that offered by Pickle & Bear, can make a huge difference in building confidence and independence at the table.

Start by offering open cups in a calm, familiar environment. Small amounts of water or milk reduce pressure and allow toddlers to practise. Cups with easy-grip handles and a stable, non-slip base are ideal, as they help little hands stay in control while learning how to lift and sip. Many families find it helpful to alternate between an open cup and a straw or sippy option, gradually increasing open-cup use as skills improve. That’s why it’s handy to use a cup that has interchangeable lids which can also be used without its lid.

When it comes to cutlery, size and comfort matter. Toddlers need utensils that feel manageable, with chunky handles that are easy to grasp. Silicone-handled cutlery provides a secure grip and helps children guide food to their mouths with greater accuracy. At first, offering foods that are easy to spear or scoop can boost success and keep frustration to a minimum.

Consistency also plays an important role. Using the same cup and cutlery at each mealtime helps toddlers build familiarity and confidence. Plates that stay in place, such as silicone suction plates, support independence by allowing children to focus on eating rather than chasing food across the table. Divided plates can also be helpful, giving toddlers a clear view of different foods and encouraging them to explore new tastes at their own pace.

Mess is inevitable, so setting the scene for success makes a real difference. A flexible silicone bib with a deep catch-all pocket protects clothing and allows toddlers the freedom to experiment without stress. When clean-up is simple, parents can stay relaxed and encouraging.

Our thoughtfully designed children’s tableware – straw & sippy cups, baby cutlery, suction plates and bibs – is made to support these everyday milestones, combining safety, durability and playful designs. With the right tools and plenty of encouragement, introducing open cups and cutlery becomes a positive step towards confident, independent eating. Browse the range right here at Pickle & Bear.

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